An Essay A Day For A Year
By Roe
Day 32, February 1, 2012
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Today, I would like to write about childbirth. Included within writing about love, childbirth is my favorite subject. I would like you the reader to first go to youtube and view “ocean birth of sonoma” to see the unassisted ocean birth of our son Sonoma. This will give you a visual background to reading this essay.
Childbirth is not a new concept. As a matter of actual fact childbirth has been around for many, many, many, many millions of years. Every one of the births throughout primordial history, during every one of these many, many millions of years, is etched in every brain of every animal, right up to us human animals. It is not an exaggeration to say that birth is primordial. Birth is actually reptilian, and animal and human birth is completely orchestrated and effected by the reptilian part of our human three tiered brain.
Speaking in extremes of black and white, there are only two types of births. One type of birth is an adrenaline birth. Adrenaline births are when the mama is in labor and the saber tooth tiger appears at the mouth of the safe birthing cave and literally threatens to eat her and her unborn child when she is in labor. Adrenaline triggers the fight or flight reflex, and mama slows or stops her labor, and then fights or flights for her life. She returns to birthing her child again when she is once again safe. The other type of birth is an endorphin birth. Endorphins are the natural pain killers secreted by the brain of the mother that quiet and slow her thinking response and allow her to surrender to her many, many millions of years of experience. If you see a birthing dog or cat screaming or running for its life, you are looking at adrenaline. If you see a birthing dog or cat during birth with that far off glazed look in the eye, panting and seemingly in a trance, you are looking at endorphins. The drug morphine is cloned from endorphins, and one's own endorphins are 10 times more powerful than synthetic morphine.
Childbirth is initially signaled, and then orchestrated by the fetus. It is imperative that the mother be in psychic tune with her fetus. If mother and fetus are in sync with each other, birth always goes perfectly. Nature and all mothers are perfectly equipped for all complications and emergencies, if mother and fetus are in tune with each other. If the mother is thinking and fearing and talking and interacting with anyone, she cannot be in tune with her fetus. It is crucial that the mother is non thinking, non cortical, non rational, even seemingly non conscious of her normal operative state. A perfect primordial endorphin birth is where the human mother has a glassy eyed far off look, panting like a birthing kitty. She doesn’t just appear to be in a trance, she in fact is in a primordial endorphin trance. When the mother is in a primordial endorphin trance she is in direct link with her fetus, and together they become many, many, many, many million years of birth perfection.
If any animal or human mother feels apprehension, or nervousness, or fear, or doubt or shame or insecurity, then adrenaline is secreted. When adrenaline is secreted she slows and ends her labor getting ready to fight or run, and when this happens she is no longer in sync with her fetus. If the mother returns to the safety of her darkened and absolutely safe cave, her labor returns normally and she and her fetus regain their communication. When a birthing mother feels overwhelmed by pain, with no recourse, her brain comes to the rescue and secretes endorphins. The more pain she feels without recourse, the more endorphin she receives. In time the birthing mother goes into a kind of pain-shock trance, not unlike how people behave in shock after accidents. When this happens her modern thinking acting wonder woman self subsides, and primordial reptile-mammalian birth response takes over. The fetus perfectly understands non thinking or acting mama, and the information flows back and forth naturally as it has for many millions of years. Birth pain is a mother’s best friend because it quickly disappears if surrendered to.
Childbirth is not a sickness, it is not a disease, and it is not a medical condition. It never has been and it never should have become. Childbirth is a woman’s right and legacy and history, and the brain contains many, many millions of years of feminine birthing history. A woman’s brain also has many, many millions of years of birthing history where any man except her birthing partner is a saber tooth tiger. Men have only been present or near childbirth worldwide for around 100 years. The psyche has not had time to accommodate 100 years of men around birthing against many, many, many millions of years of female dark safe cave with other females birthing. Men should never be around a birthing mother except for the partner with whom she loves and trusts and with whom she conceived the child.
Childbirth is not risky or dangerous if the mother and child are in sync with each other in their endorphin trance. All the statistics out there regarding the danger of childbirth are a manipulation of the truth, or a lie. If there is any break in perfect psychic fetal-mother interaction, then only a highly skilled female with hundreds or thousands of births to her experience should assist. If with the help of this maternal guide there still arise complications that could even be dangerous, then medical back up is a modern invention to save mother and child. An endorphin birthing mother in a birth trance does not need help, she can birth alone perfectly. In case she does need help her woman assistant assists her, and a skilled woman assistant can transfer to medical help long before it becomes an emergency. There is no need for birth to ever be an emergency.
When a woman births alone or with women assistants in her darkened and safe female cave, in a fetal-momma birth trance, she births a female child who believes in her ability to do the same. When this girl grows up she will feel empowered as she has unconscious access to her own prototype imprint of a safe autonomous birth. If she is in a totally loving and safe cave, then when she grows up she will welcome shutting down her control self and surrendering to her own primordial mommy-fetal trance. When a woman births a female child in adrenaline fight or flight screaming painful trauma, then her female child will grow up to doubt herself and fear herself. She will lose many, many, many million years of female power and birthing ability. The world is filled with women who were born in complete terror themselves, and who now are terrified of pain and birthing.
Women have surrendered their most significant power and legacy to men when they began birthing in the hospital. French monarchs and surgeons initially put woman on her back for their own comfort and curiosity and insecurity regarding birth. Modern medicine has subjugated women as an object to be mistrusted and controlled. It is impressive how modern woman is finally emerging as independent and autonomous in modern life with her formidable ability and prowess, yet when it comes to birth she surrenders herself on her back to male medicine as if she is sick with an abscess in her womb and is incapable of removing it. Modern medicine and doctors know virtually nothing about childbirth and the last many, many, many, many millions of years of feminine birthing legacy. Doctors know nothing about true female childbirth. Female doctors are the same as a male doctor.
A woman should never birth in a hospital unless she wants to experience and feel and see many dozens of saber tooth tigers. In the primordial psyche men are saber tooth tigers. No woman should ever trust or surrender to any male figure when it comes to birth. He was not and should not be there at all. No male god or male god son, no male priest or male president, no male judge or male policeman or male doctor or male anything should ever be trusted around a female birthing. The female psyche holds many, many, many, many millions of years of perfect birth memory, and she can not change her primordial psyche in 100 years. It is not possible to experience a true primordial endorphin fetus-momma trance birth anywhere near a man or doctor or hospital.
Childbirth is the result of making love. Childbirth is the fruition of making love. Love should always be made and bear fruit in a sweet lovely romantic darkened musical affectionate supportive environment. Love is made at home, and babies must be born at home. The safest births in the world by far are well planned home births. When a woman is in her home she feels safe, she feels loved, she feels supported, and she relaxes and surrenders. When she surrenders inward to her many million year legacy the fetus can communicate with her, and she can listen. If she is unable to endorphin trance then a highly skilled female midwife or doula can assist her. Very experienced midwives and doulas have 100 times the knowledge and experience that doctors who manage women like incapable objects and show up to catch the baby do. Experienced midwives and doulas have plenty of time and experience to transfer to a medical facility if the birthing mother is unable to surrender and communicate with her fetus.
Hospitals cause horrendous trauma bordering and entering into the realm of sadism, and ignorant doctors still practice today acts of nothing short of butchery. Being in a hospital for the sick and injured is saber tooth tiger to a woman and she produces adrenaline. Around strange people, adrenaline. Around busy inattentive people, adrenaline. Being moved, adrenaline. Silly gowns, adrenaline. Enemas, adrenaline. Nudity and genitalia publically viewed by women and especially men, octuple adrenaline. Masked and gloved doctor looking like an alien, adrenaline off the scale. Fetal heart monitor sounding out her terror adrenaline state, 10 times more adrenaline.
Add bright lights and surgical equipment and the woman and fetus literally tilt like an adrenaline fight or flight machine, and she and the fetus enter into birth terror. Now enter Mr. Medical trained to get that baby out and save the mother and baby’s life, and we have a modern catastrophe. Birth induction and augmentation is barbaric and only intensifies the adrenaline caused already by the ignorant hospital practices and insensitive doctors. Now drugs are needed because the mother never felt safe and loved and protected to produce her own pain killing endorphins. Now the mother is managed like a mannequin out of a textbook by the male hero who, together with his hospital, has adrenalized the mother and fetus and she has shut down, ready to fight or flight like the last many, many million years. She is treated as if she has fallen short or failed, and is managed as if she is having a baby as the first female in history. Man will save the day, and the woman is on her back surrendering everything to him since she is afraid of her own birthing process and the brain searing pain that the whole adrenaline terror machine has caused her.
Women should never take drugs for childbirth, they are ineffectual compared to her own endorphins, and the drugs cut off the mother-fetus interaction and paralyze the birth entirely. Women should never birth with an epidural where she feels no supposed pain. Her trying to escape her own pain and birth trauma passes on a psychic terror and birth trauma on to the fetus never imagined in history. The fetus becomes a managed piece of flesh railroaded out of the mother in heartless medical fashion, and this person will suffer terror for a lifetime for the comfort escape of a few hours for the mother. Babies should never be born by cesarean, unless an absolute life threatening situation, which with ideal preparation for primordial endorphin safe cave like home birthing is virtually non existent. Cesarean section births are emotionally and psychologically devoid of absolutely critical mother-fetal and mother-infant birth imprint. The constantly escalating c-section rate in the U.S. and the world is a harbinger of the ignorance of the medical establishment proud of cutting babies out of mothers whom they have terrified into shutting down. Cesarean section produces a plethora of problems for mother and child and the world.
The largest sadistic barbarism of all is when doctors slice from the lower vagina with a scalpel straight through muscle and tissue into and across the anus to create one enormous gaping hole to allow the egress of the infant’s head. This is done without anesthesia so that she does not tear, since it is easier to sew up than a tear for the doctor. He announces that she does not feel the pain since the sting of the baby’s head emerging is even more painful. This sadistic practice is routine, and causes inexplicable trauma in the mother and child. This practice is psychotic and unnecessary.
There is no such things as complications that the hospital and doctor saves mothers and infants from, and the stories of who saved whom told to mothers and fathers are misunderstandings and lies told far too many times. The cord wrapped around the babies neck, the baby stuck, the baby in distress, etc., etc., are issues caused by shock-fear births to begin with, and these and many other issues are easily avoided or cured. The baby doesn’t even breathe through its neck until the cord is cut, and any midwife can uncoil the cord.
Before and during the birth the birthing child feels everything that the mother feels. If the mother is in an endorphin love birth trance, so is the child. This is now called an orgasmic birth or I call it a love birth. The mother and child will experience endorphin like ecstasy during and after birth that normal life and sensuality or sexuality could never approach, and they will continue to share this together in the minutes and hours after the birth, the most critical time of all of our lives.
When a mother labors she must be in a place where she feels absolutely safe. The room should be darkened, she should have her favorite music and food and drink, and be surrounded by wonderful nostalgia and sweet memory. She should sing and dance and rail at the stars, she should weep and bitch, and hold her lover, who is the only person present. He should be absolutely silent, just caressing and touching and eyeing her with trust and strength and confidence. They should make love together and kiss and fondle and exchange any manner of pleasant sex. Mother lover and father lover should dance together, and laugh and scream and cry together. Mother and father should celebrate together the miracle about to bring life to fruition, life in an ecstatic trance of love for all.
I now invite you to go back and re-view “ocean birth of sonoma” on youtube. This is the completely unassisted underwater ocean birth of my son Sonoma. This is a primordial endorphin ecstatic love birth. I, the love father conceived my child in safe, romantic harmony. I, the love father was present but non intervening while my wife and unborn child did what they have been doing for many, many, many millions of years. Three minutes after she picked Sonoma out of the water she exclaimed, “wow, I want to have a baby again!”. And she has done the same for all 4 of our children.
This video has been studied by doctors and researchers all over the world, all of whom are incredulous. Normally after the head of the baby emerges on the next contraction the baby’s body is born. In the case of Sonoma, his shoulders and chest were larger than his head, and my wife suffered two terribly painful contractions where her entire lower abdomen and genitalia distended and protruded from the pressure, but he still did not emerge. Sonoma’s arms were pinned at his side in the birth canal. If you look carefully Sonoma’s fingers, then hand, and then arm wiggle out next to his head, and with his arm out next to his head his shoulders cock sideways, and he comes shooting out with one arm extended. All experts say that a fetus-newborn does not have the cortical power to do this, and even if he did, the strength necessary to extricate a whole arm in a tight birth canal would be extremely difficult for a grown adult, and absolutely impossible for a newborn. Nevertheless Sonoma comes to his own rescue, no doubt at the answer to a very tired mother in pain in complete and direct primordial communication with him.
Horrific birth trauma, and the lack of any birth at all (cesarean) has far reaching tentacles into our world, from many illnesses and birth defects to Sudden Infant Death Syndrome, to anger, violence, cruelty, and especially war. Trauma birth causes fear, and anger, and rage. A gentle loving ecstatic love birth equals a gentle loving ecstatic world, or at least one step closer to it. It is time for women to take their own power back from men and medicine and begin to heal our world. Birth is safest at home with careful preparation, with affectionate and trusting female care, and with a medical back up in the 1 in 100,000 cases when it may be required. This is a fact, and not my opinion, and there is plenty of data out there to support this fact. It is time for women to embrace their fear and resist their surrender to angry and ignorant men that know nothing about her many, many, many, many, many, many millions of years of perfect expertise to do what she is designed to do. She must no longer be terrorized for and while doing what she autonomously has evolved to do ecstatically and perfectly. And our babies will thank us for trusting them, just like we trusted Sonoma.
See you tomorrow.
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