Musings From The Heart
An Essay A Day For A Year
By Roe
Day 94 April 3, 2012
Ecstatic Birth Part 7
Pregnancy Sex!
The most wonderful way that ecstatic Mommy to be and ecstatic Daddy to be can prepare for their ecstatic birth and ecstatic Baby, is to make lots and lots of ecstatic Love for the nine months while baby is growing. Sex is fun and feels good right? So let’s plan on having a lot of sex and very often, and feeling lots and lots of ecstasy! The truth is that Mommy to be is an emotional and hormonal roller coaster, and often even a bona fide nut case, and great sex enjoyed often does not usually fit in with the stresses of pregnancy. Mommy’s hormonal surges tell her body and brain that “you’re pregnant”, and why in the world would she go on mating and mating and mating? She would have to be the most promiscuous kitty in the alley to keep breeding and breeding after she has already been bred. Mommy of course carries in her psyche the historical breeding pattern and legacy of every mammal and living creature that came before her. But Mommy is also a human sex Goddess in the modern world, and a horny little preggie lover too.
That is why pregnancy is such a wonderful time for couples regarding sexuality, since “getting creative” is the name of the game. Mommy to be must always remember that this pregnancy and baby are not just about her, and Daddy to be deserves as much devotion and attention as she does, and attention and devotion for Daddy equals regular great sex, and especially regular sexual release for him. A Daddy to be with an excess of anxiety and sperm count is a tense and uneasy Daddy, and so if Mommy wants peace and support, it is crucial to keep Daddy well drained. Some preggie Mommies are hella sexy and sexual during pregnancy, and those Daddies don’t need to work so hard to be creative, as a matter of fact, keeping her pregnant is all he has to do!. For the Mommies that just don’t feel sexy or sexual often, it is crucial that both Mommy and Daddy work very hard to expand and evolve their sex life, and to both focus on each other and their sexual needs. It is also crucial to focus on the ecstatic needs of Baby.
Orgasm, climax, or sexual release is a bodily function designed to enhance the pleasure response, which enhances the pregnancy rate. It is Nature’s design to conceive. But human sexual climax for men and women is far more than that. For a species that can mate at any time of day all year long, and as many times as they want, for humans sexual climax goes far beyond mere procreation. Orgasm for men and women is a bodily response to discharge tension and pain, and to soothe the entire psycho-emotional-physical system. Men who orgasm turn from angry bears to baby cubs in mere moments after orgasm, and a peaceful sleep for a man is immediately followed by a great sperm discharge. To all women everywhere: keep your man sexually happy and sexually relieved and you will keep your man enamored and at ease, and your life will thereby be enamored and at ease. Withholding sex from a married man is a form of misandry (man hating), and a way that a woman expresses anger and rage and subjugation and control of her man, and it is cruel. One to two times a week is a healthy interval for any healthy man. A woman does not have to engage in sexual intercourse to help her man with natural sexual release, but she does have to care about his needs as much as or more than her own. This is part of loving a man.
For a woman intending an ecstatic birth, the more ecstasy that she can feel sexually, and the more ecstasy that her man can feel sexually, and the more ecstasy that the baby can feel, the more ecstatic the birth will be. The more tension and stress and pain that a woman and man can release through orgasm, the more relaxed and at ease parents will be, and the more relaxed and at ease the baby will be, and the more relaxed and at ease the birth will be. Baby feels everything that Mommy feels and there is no joy greater in the world for a fetus than to be in utero when Mommy feels regular orgasms. Wow! Feel the Love and share the Love with Baby!
Mommy too is a cat with sharp claws until she screams out her climax, and then she purrs and everything falls into place. While lover boy immediately drifts off to sleep after orgasm, Mommy to be can now be clear and focused and feel at peace with her myriad responsibilities of being a Goddess. To all men: It is crucial to the self esteem and feeling of being Loved for a woman to feel regular sexual orgasms. When a woman comes she feels beautiful and important, and wanted by her man, and her world balances. Depriving any woman of her own crucial sexual orgasm whenever she desires is no less a misogyny towards a married woman than the abuse of women outside the marriage for a man who is unsatisfied. A man who loves his woman gets her off sexually and often like no other, it is his demonstration of his caring and fathering ability to her, and pregnancy is no less of a time to be King Mufasa with the happiest lioness in the kingdom than any other. This is part of loving a woman.
Daddy to be must realize that he must woo and court and enamor Mommy like never before to entice her into sexy, groovy, sweaty love making. Now is the time for romance , for laughing and partying and screwing around like teenagers. Now is the time for music and dancing and candles and dressing up, and being in Love. There is nothing sexier on the planet than the sight and sound and feel of loving a pregnant woman, and there is no sex better than making sensuous Love pregnant, and with a gorgeous pregnant woman. Now is the time for Daddy to realize that there is much more to sex for Mommy than just fucking, or just penetration, or merely his discharge. Every decent male lover knows that he never comes before his queen, and he never comes if his queen doesn’t come. He may come without her only if his beauty begs to be left without climax, or as her chosen gift to him. For pregnant Mommy, just cuddling and petting and kissing her back and neck until she sleeps is making Love. Long foreplay and amazing deep kissing and nothing more is making Love, and full body massages and sex play with oils and toys for her pleasure is making Love. For preggie Mommy feeling loved and in Love and being made to feel beautiful and important and special is making Love, and her man must realize that there is more to sex than just Dick and Pussy.
Pregnancy is the greatest time to play around and try on new routines for sex, new places for sex, new times for sex, and new ideas for sex. Pregnancy is the most wonderful time to throw away self loathing, pre conceived ideas of morality that come from archaic culture or religion or antiquated parents, of good and bad, and of clean and dirty, and of should and should nots. In wonderful and beautiful pregnancy anything goes that is consensual and pleasurable for both partners. Now the couple in ecstatic Love has nine months to go through the wonderful books in the bookstore of romantic nights, of tantric sex, of 1001 positions, and myriads of ideas that are just plain affectionate fun, right through to ecstatic kinky shit. It is time to practice and become experts at the art of Daddy fingering and groping Mommy, gradual one-two-three-four-five fingering, right through to fisting Mommy, the best pre pregnancy exercise on the planet. This is called a vaginal “massage” and wonderful preparation for birth. And Mommy, you have never felt an orgasm like the one that your lover boy gives you with his gentle fist, together with a delicate tongue on the clitty. Now is the time for Mommy to turn her vaginal muscles into the most ecstatic elevator to milk a man that the world has ever seen while she sits on top of him, without him even moving or thrusting, and massages his penis with her internal muscles. In this way she can learn expert control over her vaginal tense and release muscles that Baby will call upon during labor and birth. All women can learn to tighten the vaginal muscles to impede the entry of a small finger, and then release all muscles to allow the entry of a full fist, and this is expert birthing preparation, and great sexy fun.
When Mommy is tired in late pregnancy, hot sex is the best cardio on the planet, and you will need an athlete’s heart and lungs during labor Mommy, so keep on loving and fucking and do it often, instead of those walks or that useless Stairmaster or treadmill at the gym. Time to work up to a full hour of frenetic fuck and roll each day without breaking a sweat! When Mommy becomes sore from penetration, simply find a position that feels nice, or don’t penetrate. Use your tongue Daddy and perfect your pussy kissing ability often until the neighbors become alarmed at the cat screeching in your bed at night, and then let her be happy with her pleasure without needing yours. Mommy you should receive your pleasure your way, and be honest and courageous in telling and training your lover boy. But don’t forget is needs. Remember that you have adept hands for that boy-style had job, and remember to take his seed into your mouth as proof of your love to him when you satisfy him with those lips that he is so in love with. Any woman that does not adore her man’s seed must question whether she adores her man, since his seed is a billion or more of her man, and her man prizes his seed as highly as himself. If a man also as issues with his own seed, then he must face his own issues of not truly prizing his own self. The ecstatic Love baby is conceived of wonderful man seed, and peace and Love must be made between the couple with wonderful man sperm.
During pregnancy is the greatest time to learn to play fantasy games and role plays, and power games of the events of your childhoods and lives. “I am the princess and you are the bad boy climbing the tower, and instead of saving me you are going to ravage me!” “Now I am the prince and you won’t have it that you ride on the back of the horse, so you spin me around and take me like the little pregnant witchy that you are!” Pregnancy is a great time to celebrate being in Love, and get creative in surrendering to each other and your inner sexual selves and needs and fantasies, and make sex fun and often!
The greatest joy of all during pregnancy is anal sex, and any couple that hasn’t perfected gentle and loving and passionate anal sex doesn’t know what they are missing. Throw your sexual shame and self denigrating and woman denigrating Bible in the garbage where it belongs, and be proud of all pleasure from and with your two beautiful and perfect bodies. Women that have evolved and cultivated anal orgasms report that they are 2 to 4 times more powerful and pleasurable than vaginal orgasms, and with anal sex baby doesn’t get in the way so easily. Remember that anal sex never, never hurts, unless both partners desire it so. The anus is the most erogenous part of the body after the finger tips and clitoris and penis head, and Daddy too can really enjoy receiving his finger job or rim job or strap-on sex from Mommy. This is a favorite from virtually all men, so turn the tables Mommy and enjoy!
If couples are struggling with their own carnal and libidinous desires vis a vis shame and doubt and guilt and morality, and especially the oppression of pleasure hating religion, it is time to graduate out of the ridiculous and archaic middle ages and accept that in Love and consent all sexual activity is beautiful and acceptable. It is time to throw those manipulating, disgusting old religious texts away and embrace beautiful humanity and the Love of pleasure that is shared and given joyously and ecstatically. If Mommy and Daddy are sexually repressed and hung up after a life of terrible parenting and our Puritan repressive sexual culture, now is the time for lots and lots of beautiful, messy, noisy fucking in every possible way. If there is a God, he or she Loves us to Love, and express Love, and pleasure is Love, and sex is Love, and there is no restraint on mutual and consensual Love of any kind. Anyone in history who wrote otherwise was a man hater and a woman hater and a life hater and a lover hater and a God hater, and should not be trusted. We are all beautiful and all sex is beautiful when shared in mutual joy.
The worst we could ever do is pass on our own sexual problems and hang ups and traumas that our fearful and repressed parents and culture dumped on us onto our beautiful baby that is coming to us. Let us enjoy ourselves and each other in any way that feels good, and if Mommy doesn’t feel like she is in the mood, then Daddy better turn on that charm and humor and romance. Or turn up the speed on that dildo. And don’t forget Daddy lots and lots of hugs and kisses that Mommy requires to know that she is beautiful and wanted even without penetration. All you have to do Mommy is keep lover boy cranking out that sperm and getting it out for him, and then you will both live happily ever after. And when you live happily ever after, Baby will be ecstatic and you will have an ecstatic birth, and all will live happily ecstatically, sexually ever after.
See you tomorrow.
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