Musings From The Heart
An Essay A Day For A Year
By Roe
Day 99 April 8, 2012
Ecstatic Birth Part 8
The Day Of Ecstatic Birth Baby
Today is the day that Baby is coming! Yippee!
Today is the day of celebration, and the greatest day of celebration
ever! Birth Mommy and Daddy have
everything ready since long ago, they have the ideal, romantic birth cave
ready, they have wonderful music and food and drink ready, and they are so
excited. Mommy is as ready for this
wonderful day as an Olympic athlete, she is in peak cardio-vascular physical
condition, she is limber and supple like a child from all her stretching, she
is well nourished and hydrated, and most of all she is feeling harmonious from
all her great, daily sex and relaxing orgasms with Hubby. Mommy has expert
control over her vaginal muscles, from vice like constricting, to complete,
gaping relaxation. Mommy feels confident
and hopeful, and deeply trusts herself that she will be the best birther in the
world! Birth Daddy is the happiest birth
caddy-daddy in the world, Mommy is the golfer, and Daddy eagerly and
affectionately follows her like an eager caddy from stage to stage, always
beaming confidence and support. Daddy feels deeply trusting of his beautiful
lady and his coming Baby! Mommy and
Daddy to be are so well prepared, so well educated, and so ready for their
ecstatic, solo, unassisted birth, just the way perfect Mother Nature intended,
and prepared them both for in the last billion years.
As we know after 7 essays, it is Baby who is
the birth maestro, and all Mommy has to do is get out of her own way, and stop
being Mrs. Know-It-All, or Mrs. I’m-So-Helpless. All Mommy has to do is surrender to her birth
pain, and the loveliest drug in the world will get her and baby high, her own
birth endorphins. Baby is very, very happy, but Baby is feeling very cramped,
and really must get out! Baby is the most perfect and omniscient creature in
the universe, and Baby’s lucidity will perfectly guide his or her own beautiful
ecstatic birth. Soon into labor, Mommy will turn into a panting, glassy eyed
kitty and bunny and sheep, and when we wave our hand in front of her eyes, in
the loveliest ecstatic-birth way, “no one is home”, Mommy and baby are in their
psychic and subliminal birth trance.
At the perfect moment and time, and in the
perfect place, soon Baby’s head will crown, or Baby’s feet will protrude, and
Baby is almost here! (Breech birth is completely normal and safe and routine in
gentle, ecstatic births). The actual
emergence into Life outside the womb, and the converting of umbilical Life to
air breathing Life is absolutely critical.
The emergence of Baby’s head may be the only part of the entire birth that
Birth Mommy later reports as uncomfortable, as the crowning and emergence of
Baby’s head often stings for just a bit.
Baby is usually born in the next contraction, but there is no rush or
worry since Baby is still living off of the umbilical cord. There are clear signs if there are problems
with Baby or the cord or Mommy, and Mommy and Daddy are well educated to know
how things are going.
When Baby is born, Mommy is the first to
touch Baby, she simply reaches down or reaches back and cradle-catches her own
child. It is absolutely imperative that Mommy brings Baby immediately to her
warm, naked, beautiful body, with the cord intact. Mommy is now orgasmically happy and relieved,
and she often convulses with ecstatic, giddy joy, or ecstatic tears. This is Mommy’s defining moment, and the most
important and impactful and happiest moment of her life. Mommy is Goddess, and
Life giver, and the center and pinnacle of the universe. At this moment there
is no one but Goddess and her child. Mommy should use her mouth and suck out the
nasal passages gently and with love if she feels that it is necessary, just
like kitty and bunny, and Mommy instinctually knows what to do, and any
reluctance that she may feel in her normal state to the primordial mammalian
mother ritual is long forgotten, for at this moment Mommy is She Panther and
She Wolf. With the beauty of underwater
births, Baby emerges with clean and clear breathing passages, and largely
washed and ready to open his or her eyes.
If there is no birth tub, Mommy can lick the eyes of Baby to clear them
if it feels natural, and Mommy keeps Baby very warm, and she gently pets and
admires her miracle child.
When Baby makes the transition from umbilical
cord to lung breathing, Baby may experience a burn in the trachea, and this is
often the only crying from a gentle birth.
Mommy gently holds her child, and comforts him or her in this very
important and often scary transition. Most importantly, Mommy knows to search
for and embrace eyes and heart with Baby. Baby can see optically-psychically
perfectly, and Baby and Mommy now meet
for the first time as mutually sentient creatures. Baby now “downloads” and “imprints” his or
her maternal progenitor. This is the
most important moment in all of our lives, the first moment that “actuality” is
contrasted with the “potentiality” bliss of Mommy’s perfect womb. Now Mommy can relax, and enjoy Baby, and Baby
can enjoy Mommy. Now Mommy can introduce
Daddy, and with warm hands and loving eyes, Daddy and Baby can embrace eyes and
hearts for the first time, and now Baby downloads and imprints “the other half”
of Life, the paternal progenitor. Lights
are kept to candle lit low, soft music is playing, the same music that Mommy
and Daddy have been playing to Baby in the womb for nine months, and voices are
kept low and to a minimum. Of course
there is no one else in the room with Mommy and Daddy and Baby during the first
hour at least.
Mommy may now offer her nipple to Baby
gently, as it is important for Baby to suckle as soon as possible. It is not important to be concerned about
cleaning Baby, or ever weigh or measure or move Baby from his or her ideal
position on Mommy’s breast, and Baby must always have glowing visibility of
Mommy’s face. Daddy can now aid Mommy in Mommy’s second birth, the birth of the
placenta. In an ecstatic, natural,
gentle birth, the cord is never cut.
Mommy is busy with adoring Baby and Baby is enraptured with adoring
Mommy. In another contraction or two the
placenta emerges, and Daddy wraps it lovingly into a special cloth that he has
ready, and places it on Mommy’s tummy.
Much later when Baby can be lovingly bathed, the placenta too can be
lovingly washed and cleaned. Baby is
never clothed in the first hours and days of after birth, but lives on and with
Mommy naked, skin to skin with Mommy, who is also naked. In the brief moments when Mommy and Baby are
separated, so Mommy can move around and focus on her own needs, Baby is simply
wrapped in beautiful and soft cloth.
Baby’s placenta is lovingly packed in herbs and salt, and wrapped up in
a ceremonious cloth, and for the next few days, carried around with Baby until
the cord dries up, and then separates naturally from Baby at the belly
button. Mommy and Daddy now have a
beautiful ceremony with Baby where the placenta is planted in the ground with a
beautiful flower or tree over it, in thanks for it’s miraculous effort in
growing Baby. In biological and psychic
actuality, Mommy is the Mommy of the Placenta, as she grows the Placenta, and
the Placenta is the Mommy of the Baby.
That is how Baby feels it psycho-psychic-emotionally-physically, and it
causes severe birth trauma to “cut” the cord, especially when the cord is still
alive and full of a large portion of Baby’s blood.
The first few seconds and minutes and hours
and first day for Baby are ideal, they are warm, skin to skin, they are quiet
and peaceful, and there is a minimum of moving around, and of unnecessary
cleaning and organizing and logistics, and unnecessary showing off of Baby to
other people. Baby is the most priceless
and precious Stratovarious violin, the most delicate and precise Swiss watch in
history, and the most exquisite and fragile Ming vase in the world. Baby is a
living and breathing masterpiece of Love, and the most sentient and omniscient
creature in the universe. Womb life and
birth and the first few seconds and minutes and hours and days for Baby are the
most impactful and Life supporting or Life destroying for Baby and us all, and
so every moment and every move is on behalf of the next Loving Prodigy of Life,
and Baby’s beginning is ideal, which makes for a beautiful and romantic and
grateful ideal Love sharing for Mommy and Daddy.
Congratulations to ecstatic birth Mommy and
ecstatic birth Daddy on your surrender to trusting yourselves and trusting your
newborn Baby, and trusting Life and Love and Nature. All of you, and our world, will be forever rewarded.
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